This first column you are reading hopefully holds the guiding philosophy for what will become the THOUGHTS OF JEN. While I do intend to write about many things as events prevail and life explorations come about, you should know where I am at – in this moment.
I am an American originally hailing from the wilds of New Jersey who has been educated in some of our country’s greatest cities and institutions in the North and South; who has traveled much of our great land and overseas; who has been a filmmaker, history-buff and political junkie for most of my life; a believer that culture, commerce and independent thought are integral to the human experience; that positivity is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and each other on a daily basis; and that the most treasured journey in life is parenthood in the first degree.
Oh… I’m also Female, Transgender and a Republican (the lifelong, U2-lovin’ kind). I believe those three things (Female, Transgender and Republican) are not incompatible with each other. Especially since my being Transgender is more of my essence than my soulful Christianity or my beliefs in most of the ideals of the Republican Party. And yes, my dear Republican National Committee, Transgender People do have a right to exist… sorta like Israel.
I am working on my GOP’s lack of knowledge and leadership on Transgender Rights and overall LGBT issues. I have no illusions that this may not be a Sisyphusian-like task in many cases, however I know and have met many people that are accepting of Transgender and LGB people. The challenge is to get them to more bravely speak up and out on our behalf.
At this past 2016 Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) which I attended, I was very heartened by the strides made by a great number of Conservatives towards LGBT people. I “came out” to a number of old friends at CPAC and their unwavering and continued support to me wasn’t totally surprising, but was very welcome. To quote one of them, “Why should this matter? You’re still my friend.” I don’t know if I am the first Transgender Woman to attend CPAC, but I hope I won’t be the last. I was welcomed everywhere I went at the Conference and I’ve already promised a few new friends (and old ones) that I will be back in 2017.
While trying to work on the GOP side of things, I also intend to work on my Trans and LGB brothers and sisters’ antipathy towards anything Republican and Conservative. I know that there are many LGBT folks who do vote for Republican candidates when these candidates actually do ask for and value their vote. Economic, Security and Foreign Policy issues are the main concerns of many of these voters, but your own Legal Rights can and should rise to the top when they are threatened by either political party (ie. North Carolina’s and Mississippi’s Governor and Legislatures in 2016, Barney Frank and Nancy Pelosi-circa 2007).
As for me, I only have one way in which to describe myself to people… “God Made Me Transgender. I Choose to be Republican.”
We have to have both sides (Transgender and Republican/Conservative) somehow meet in the middle and come together on some things. Our country and our world need this badly. And as President Ronald Reagan once said, “My 80-percent friend is not my 20-percent enemy.”
Having just recently visited the soon-to-be-again Great State of North Carolina (post-HB2 legislation) and personally experienced the consternation, rebelliousness and fear going on there – I know that we all have a lot of work to do. I aim to do my part.