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The transgender Republican trying to change her party

  • 28 September 2016

Close up picture of Jennifer WilliamsImage copyright JEAN CLAUDE MICHEL

When lifelong Republican Jennifer Williams arrived at the party’s National Convention in Cleveland this summer, she felt nervous. Although she was excited to be an honorary delegate for New Jersey, she was worried about how others would respond to her.

She had attended many political events before this, including both of President George W Bush’s inaugurations, but this was to be her first party convention – and one of the first political gatherings she would attend as Jennifer.

As the sole transgender delegate at the event, so far as she could tell, she knew there was a possibility some would not welcome her with open arms.

“I was wary of my surroundings” she says.

“But I did allow myself extra time to find a less crowded bathroom whenever I could and always made sure to confidently smile and chat.”

Jennifer is a filmmaker, writer, parent and Republican county committeewoman. Born into a family of military veterans, her assigned gender at birth was male. She always felt different from those around her but couldn’t quite pinpoint what it was.

Caitlin Jenner pictured at an event in New YorkCopyright Dimitrios Kambouris. 
Jennifer says transgender celebrities like Caitlin Jenner – also a Republican – have had a positive impact. 

“We didn’t have cable television for a good while and there were no library books for non-adults, so I didn’t have any context for how I was feeling or what I was going through,” she says.

As she grew older, she began to suspect that she identified more as a female.

“I just knew in my heart that for some reason, I belonged on the girl side of things.”

Over time, she developed coping strategies to push these feelings aside and fit in with her friends and schoolmates.

“I had to learn how to do ‘guy stuff’ and try to fit in so I wouldn’t get bullied and beat up.”

Photo of gender neutral bathroomCopyright Getty Images
The White House says gender identity is a civil rights issue.

But the pressure of suppressing her true identity steadily mounted. About seven years ago, she felt things began to “come to a head” and she finally admitted to her wife that she was transgender.

By then, thanks to the internet, a lot more information had become available. But her actual transition to her “authentic self” took several years.

For a long time, Jennifer had been the sole Republican in her family, most of whom were committed Democrats. But as she transitioned from one gender identity to another, she also began to wonder whether staying in the Republican Party was the “right thing to do”.

For Jennifer, the Republican Party represents “freedom and opportunity” and rewards “hard work.”

“I want to see our government help to create the conditions so if someone wants to work hard and succeed, they can be rewarded for their diligence and sacrifice,” she says.

She supports limited government and holds conservative views on foreign policy and fiscal issues.

Jennifer Williams spoke to Newshour on the BBC World Service – listen to the interview here

But the issue of LGBT rights is one area in which she finds herself very much at odds with her party.

She is “disappointed” in some of the rhetoric used by its leadership. For her, there is an inconsistency between the party’s position on the individual rights of Americans to own guns, and the individual rights of LGBT Americans to live their lives as they choose – something some Republicans do not accept.

“If you want to support personal liberty, you really should be consistent and do it in all areas,” she says.

“You can’t talk the talk on guns and not talk the talk on liberties and personal freedom,” she says.

The party’s position on transgender bathrooms in colleges also frustrates her. One element, the Title IX Resolution, “encourages state legislatures to enact laws that protect student privacy and limit the use of restrooms, locker rooms and similar facilities to members of the sex to whom the facility is designed.”

This is “contrary to the party I grew up with and I’ve known”, says Jennifer.

The Title IX resolution is part of an ongoing political row over the issue. In March, the US state of North Carolina enacted a law which means people must use the toilet that corresponds with the gender on their birth certificates. Shortly afterwards, the Obama administration issued a directive ordering public schools to allow transgender students to use the toilet that matches the gender they identify with. Twelve states announced they will sue the federal government over it, and in August, a Texas judge approved a temporary injunction suspending it in the state.

Jennifer is also concerned about the selection of Indiana Governor Mike Pence as the running mate of Republican presidential nominee Donald Trump. In 2015, he signed into law a religious freedom bill, which some saw as anti-gay.

Although she agrees with Pence on some issues, she is “troubled” by his track record with the LGBT community, she says.

Image of Donald Trump and Mike Pence at the Republican National ConventionCopyright Timothy A. Clary

Jennifer disagrees with some of the Republican Party’s official positions on LGBT rights.
Some of her LGBT friends were confused by her decision to stay in the Republican Party. But, Jennifer is convinced that she can reach out to LGBT voters and have a positive impact by remaining within it.”If I leave the party, I can’t make them make a better part, and I can’t change their mind on LGBT rights – and that’s my ultimate goal,” she says.”As the late Edward W. Brooke, a Republican and the last black man elected to serve in the U.S. Senate prior to Obama said – ‘I would rather change the party from within, not without.'”

While some polls suggest that Americans who identify as LGBT are much more likely to be Democrats, Jennifer wishes to challenge the stereotype that all LGBT people must hold those political beliefs.

“If I didn’t go to the RNC to engage people at this year’s convention, who would?”

“I have a responsibility to explain being transgender to people who don’t know what it is apart from what they’ve seen on TV or what their pastor may have said at church.”

Although initially apprehensive, Jennifer says found the party’s convention a “very welcoming place”. While she didn’t disclose the fact she was transgender to everyone she encountered, with those she did, she felt she had a “good conversation”, and spoke at length about other political issues too.

But, although she is a committed Republican, the Trump-Pence campaign has still not convinced her that it should have her vote in this year’s presidential election.

“My jury is still out,” she says.

“I have to see where we are as a country. A lot of things could happen between on now and election day.”

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This piece was originally published in the BBC Magazine.

Talking with Media – Democracy Now!

  • Jennifer Williams at Quicken Loans Arena's RNC main entrance -Day 1
    Jennifer Williams at Quicken Loans Arena’s RNC main entrance -Day 1
  • I attended the Republican National Convention in Cleveland, Ohio last week. It was a wonderful adventure for me to be there as an Honorary Delegate from New Jersey and as a Transwoman. I met a lot of great people (political and non-political; some Uber drivers) before and during the RNC and I’ll write about some of them soon. My goal  at the RNC was to connect with my own delegation, more people in my party and to talk about Transgender and LGBT Rights with as many power players as I could meet. Being there on my own in a city where I do not know a soul was a bit daunting at times, but I am happy as heck that I did it. I think I made some good change happen in some hearts and minds and at the least… there are a bunch of people who cannot ever say “I’ve never met a transperson.”

While in Cleveland, I was blessed with the opportunity to speak with both U.S. and foreign media while I was at the Convention. As I made the rounds, it was harder than I expected to get some of the major media players in America to speak with me as a Republican Transwoman and delegate. With all the controversy of transgender rights and the Republican Party, that surprised the heck out of me.

After this year of my Grand Old Party hurting itself and our Transgender community in many states, my hope was to speak out publicly as much as I could – to as many people as I could. Chatting with regular Republicans was easy, the media… not as much. Maybe there will be chances in the future to present a Republican who happens to be transgender and wants to help her community and country be better.

That said, some media outlets thought my perspective was of interest to their audience and their reporters asked me some good questions. One such interview was with Democracy Now!, which is available on many independent TV stations around the country and on-line. Alana Jochum, Executive Director of Equality Ohio and Charles Moran, board member of the Log Cabin Republicans are interviewed in this segment. Your humble author appears at the 9:37 mark.

More links are posted below the Democracy Now! video. I hope you enjoy and share them, even if you disagree with me.

Washington Times

Washington Blade

Time Magazine

Newsmax

New Now Next

Newsy

Daily Dot

One last note, I do want to congratulate and applaud the 27 DNC delegates who happen to be transgender attending their own party convention. Also, on the last night of the DNC – Sarah McBride of the Human Rights Campaign will be making the first Convention speech at either party’s convention… ever. Pretty great stuff and a great moment for my tribe, even if I am on the other side of the political aisle. I hope Sarah kills it!

 

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God Made Me Transgender. I Choose to be Republican.

Author Jennifer Williams at the North Carolina Welcome Sign on I-85 from Virginia - April, 2016
Author Jennifer Williams at the North Carolina Welcome Sign on I-85 from Virginia – April, 2016

This first column you are reading hopefully holds the guiding philosophy for what will become the THOUGHTS OF JEN. While I do intend to write about many things as events prevail and life explorations come about, you should know where I am at – in this moment.

I am an American originally hailing from the wilds of New Jersey who has been educated in some of our country’s greatest cities and institutions in the North and South; who has traveled much of our great land and overseas; who has been a filmmaker, history-buff and political junkie for most of my life; a believer that culture, commerce and independent thought are integral to the human experience; that positivity is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and each other on a daily basis; and that the most treasured journey in life is parenthood in the first degree.

Oh… I’m also Female, Transgender and a Republican (the lifelong, U2-lovin’ kind). I believe those three things (Female, Transgender and Republican) are not incompatible with each other. Especially since my being Transgender is more of my essence than my soulful Christianity or my beliefs in most of the ideals of the Republican Party. And yes, my dear Republican National Committee, Transgender People do have a right to exist… sorta like Israel.

I am working on my GOP’s lack of knowledge and leadership on Transgender Rights and overall LGBT issues. I have no illusions that this may not be a Sisyphusian-like task in many cases, however I know and have met many people that are accepting of Transgender and LGB people. The challenge is to get them to more bravely speak up and out on our behalf.

At this past 2016 Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) which I attended, I was very heartened by the strides made by a great number of Conservatives towards LGBT people. I “came out” to a number of old friends at CPAC and their unwavering and continued support to me wasn’t totally surprising, but was very welcome. To quote one of them, “Why should this matter? You’re still my friend.” I don’t know if I am the first Transgender Woman to attend CPAC, but I hope I won’t be the last. I was welcomed everywhere I went at the Conference and I’ve already promised a few new friends (and old ones) that I will be back in 2017.

While trying to work on the GOP side of things, I also intend to work on my Trans and LGB brothers and sisters’ antipathy towards anything Republican and Conservative. I know that there are many LGBT folks who do vote for Republican candidates when these candidates actually do ask for and value their vote.  Economic, Security and Foreign Policy issues are the main concerns of many of these voters, but your own Legal Rights can and should rise to the top when they are threatened by either political party (ie. North Carolina’s and Mississippi’s Governor and Legislatures in 2016, Barney Frank and Nancy Pelosi-circa 2007).

As for me, I only have one way in which to describe myself to people… “God Made Me Transgender. I Choose to be Republican.”

We have to have both sides (Transgender and Republican/Conservative) somehow meet in the middle and come together on some things. Our country and our world need this badly. And as President Ronald Reagan once said, “My 80-percent friend is not my 20-percent enemy.”

Having just recently visited the soon-to-be-again Great State of North Carolina (post-HB2 legislation) and personally experienced the consternation, rebelliousness and fear going on there –  I know that we all have a lot of work to do. I aim to do my part.